When you say something good to someone

you give them confidence , that you believe in them and this creates liking.

Find your speaking range

Start speaking , when your tone begins to change , that's the time , you need to take a breath. Keeping tone constant is the key to speaking good.

So true

"Sadness brings sadness and bad results attracts bad results."

I assume my responsibilities

Facts vs Perception

If you cannot win with facts , don't try to beat someone with perception.

Smart Vs Wise

A smart man makes a mistake, learns from it, and never makes that mistake again. But a wise man finds a smart man and learns from him how to avoid the mistake altogether.

Is it right to express your opinion, always ?

Opinions spark hatred. Keep them to yourself.

Control your "REACTIONS"

Reaction/Rudeness
Emotion/Ego
Attitude/Aggressiveness
Carelessness
Tongue/Thoughts
Impulse/Impatience
Obsessive/Overcritical
Narrow-mindedness
Self centred / Selfishness

When do we lose confidence ?

When we start comparing , no matter to whom. The motto should be , you are good in your eyes and I am good in mine , not in an arrogant way but still with your head held high.

You cannot raise your voice above

certain level , if you want to make yourself heard.

Say sorry even

If you didnt do wrong but it will help you a lot.

Just think

Just think what are you trying to say .

• Does that matter ?
• Is it relevant ?
• Would it be better , if you don't say it ?

It all depends upon you

You can convert happiness into sadness or you can convert sadness into happiness. It all depends on you.

Give Respect

To other's achievements esp. your loved ones.

If you want something good to happen to you

Ask yourself , what good have you done today ?
 Even positive thoughts count.

Become handicapped in your speech / actions

Ever wonder , why people show respect and love to handicapped people ? Because they are harmless people , who themselves are going through a lot of trouble , still , they give positive feelings. Whereas "normal" people when in stress / trouble , give a lot of negative energy.

Try to control

Your feelings , thougths , emotions and NOT people

Anger in your conversation

comes from your failed attempt to convince someone or your failure to explain something to someone. So , you become angry as you  think " why is he/she not understanding".

Argue

Just look at the person who you want to argue with. Is he capable to understand ? If not, then DONT.

Tackle difficult situations

 with humour

Ignore , just ignore

If someone is trying to annoy you , just ignore because he/she is just looking for a reaction which will satisfy him/her. So . just ignore , no matter how much you are annoyed. Just walk away.